Broken hurts

I haven't been blogging coz nothing interesting been happening in my life. Just long days at sch and work. Of course gym oh and I've been baking a lot these days. Don even know where I get the strength coz am always exhausted.

Anyhu, one of my closest, bestest, buddy loving friends just broke up with her almost 2yr bwoyy (they were making 2yrs in August). She really hasn't told me why coz every time she tries to, she just breaks into tears. Am kinda sensing its her fault coz she even didn't tell me in the first place. I only realised they werent together coz he had taken away all pics of her from Instagram n Facebook. Yeah I know best friends should talk but she eventually will tell me. I know that. 

The point if this post is to actually encourage all broken hearts out there that its ok too feel down, to be angry. Cry out for Gods sake all that rage. Soon or later, it will go away. Time for sure heals all wounds. Just know that being single only means discovering yourself, getting to know you and just live your amazing life until the right one shows up coz you honestly are amazing and if anyone cannot see that they aren't good enough for you.  Put on your usual fabulous clothes, make up, optimism that you always have and damn it smile coz you always preach how important smiles are.

I am honoured to have the best man by my side but it took endless years of being single, being my fabulous self and of course my Tom boy years that led me to think that that was the reason I was single. Oh gosh. But the main reason was no one was good enough. They were too tall, too shabby, too black, too white.......too of everything. Those were just excuses. Anyhu, even though am in a relationship, I make sure it doesn't define who I am. Nope, no. I am still my fabulous, over talkative, beautiful, amazing, exquisite self and yall are. 

Just love. Good nite dollz