What are you scared of gal?

This blog post is inspired by Bondibilala

The best relationship one could ever have is with oneself. And when you have loved yourself the best way that you can, you discover your worth and settle for nothing less.

I recently had my ears bleeding having listened to a friend moaning and grinning having been left by her friend. Now that shez single, life sucks. Sigh sigh sigh. This is dedicated to you girl.
I wonder why people think relationships are glamorous coz it really takes patience, love, hardwork, compromise, trust, acceptance, the list goes on and on. Sure, instagram, facebook, keek and all those social networks deceive us with daily pics of couples and their PDAs but that aint real life, its just a tiny bit of the entire relationship.

There are soo many married people or people that are literally stack in a relationship because they dont wanna hurt the other person. Their far gone single days were the best days or their lives. There is no Me or I in a relationship, its two of you or 3 if u count that one annoying gal trying to break u apart. But your single days, its just you hun. Travel around, commit on your amazing talents (You know u are good at what you do), concentarte on your books coz hey school is calling. Learn to be on your own and stop dwelling on the relationship u had or could have had. You are possibly sorrounded by people in "perfect" relationships, do not compare yourself to the for Gods sake! Take yourself on dates;contrary to popular belief, its not sad at all. Just like it takes a confident man of his sexuality to wear pink, it takes just as much confidence to have lunch or see a movie alone.
When you done living single, being in relationship will be a m a z i n g because then you are comfortable with yourself.

Dont forget to fall in love with yourself first: Carrie Bradshaw